Dear Carolyn: A close friend in another state didn’t tell me about her daughter’s wedding for nine months. She offered various excuses, such as it being a small wedding. I would have respected that and not have pushed to go; it was not being informed that bothered me. We speak for hours at a time at least twice a week. I was shocked and hurt and told her so, and she apologized, but I am still astounded. It feels like a betrayal. What say you?