One of the great things about sex is that there are so many fabulous ways to have it. From switching up positions, to experimenting with kink, to incorporating sex toys and other props, to getting adventurous with location (sex on the washing machine, anyone?) there is simply no end of ways to get it on. Hence why it’s a great idea to keep a sex bucket list—aka, a running list of sexy stuff you want to try in (or, you know, outside of) the bedroom.

Not only is a sex bucket list a great way to keep track of all the sex things you’re dying to do, but it’s also a fun little tool to help you explore your sexuality and figure out where your sexual boundaries lie. In fact, while your sex bucket list can absolutely just be a place for all the horny little ideas you have, it can also double as a yes/no/maybe list, which is where you and a partner list things you’re down to try in bed together, things you’re potentially interested in exploring, and things that are a hard no.

That said, you definitely do not have to be partnered to craft a sex bucket list. Literally anyone can make one. So, whether you’re in your single and fabulous era, looking to sexplore with a partner, or just want to build out your sexual repertoire, allow us to put these 105 sex bucket list ideas on your radar.

1. Experiment with different kinks.

Kinks are basically anything that arouses you, and there are tonnns of different ones out there. Maybe you like the feeling of latex against your skin? Or getting spanked? Or wearing heels in bed? Try some different kinky moves and ideas out.

2. Wear a strap-on.

Whether you're having sex with a person with a vagina or enjoying pegging—aka, acting as the top in anal sex with a (usually) male/AMAB partner, which fully deserves another spot on this list—wearing a strap-on dildo can make you feel powerful. Everyone deserves to feel what it's like to have a dick.

3. Switch it up.

A switch is someone who enjoys both dominant and submissive roles. While most people identify somewhere along the spectrum, and it can change depending on your partner, it can be illuminating to at least try a role reversal. So, if you're usually submissive, ask your partner or next hook-up if they're down to let you dom them for a night, or vice versa.

    4. Try massage as role play.

    Foot and Yoni massages are hot, which is why they both earned a spot on this list, but you can also get off on back (or full-body) massages. Have your partner rub you down, pretending they're your actual masseuse, and if you consent, they can “take advantage of you” (we mean that in a role-play way) by having the massage appointment turn into much more.

      5. Sleep with two people in one day.

      Being slutty is so hot. While practicing safe sex, of course, if the opportunity presents itself, we highly recommend the rush of power and eroticism that comes with sleeping with two different people in one day.

      6. Wear an animal tail butt plug.

      Butt plugs are super cute, but have you checked out anal toys that come with a tail? You can roleplay being someone's pet, but like, a super cute unicorn pet.

      7. No kissing.

      Taking away kissing from the sex menu heightens the rest of the experience and allows for Pretty Woman-coded roleplay. Holding back on traditionally vanilla options can make for the kinkiest of sexperiences.

      8. Try an MMF threesome.

      Threesomes are hot (dih), but have you noticed that most people (ahem, straight men) assume that means MFFs, aka, two women? We know you've watched it in porn, so why not (if you want to) enjoy two guys making you feel like a goddess through the next-level experience of having two men at once?

      9. Explore double penetration.

      If you have a vagina and are turned on by double penetration, remember that that doesn't mean you need two people. Thanks to the genius invention that is dildos, you can feel the fullness of anal and vaginal penetration at once by adding a dildo to your usual dick down, or skip bio penises altogether and use two dildos (with plenty of lube) on yourself.

      10. Make Yes/No/Maybe lists.

      Also known as red, yellow, and green lists, these handy little lists help you identify, write down, and share your hard and soft boundaries. In the “red” or “no” column, write down things you have no interest in ever trying. The “yellow” or “maybe” column is for things you are curious about but not sure you want to experience, and the “green” or “yes” list is for sexual fantasies that you absolutely want to try.


      11. Give a foot job.

      It's like a hand job but done with your feet. FWIW: It's best to give your piggies a wash before bestowing your partner with a foot job.

      12. ... Get a foot job.

      These boots aren't just made for walking, bb. You'd be surprised at all that can be accomplished when you incorporate both hands and feet into sexy time.

      13. Enjoy a round of sensual foot massages.

      Okay, if foot jobs sound too extreme, how about sensual foot massages? The feet have so many nerve endings, and some people actually orgasm from foot rubs alone, which means pedicures are about to become a lot more fun.

      14. Film yourself having sex.

      Ready to make a sex tape? Be sure to turn off your sharing, get enthusiastic consent from your partner (and decide what you'll do with the tape after), and get ready for your close up.

      15. Film yourself masturbating.

      If you don't have a partner or don't feel like recording your coupled-up sex, how about some solo clips? Watching yourself masturbate is not only v hot, but you might also pick up a tip or two from yourself, which is like masturbation inception in all the best ways.

      16. Have sex on a pool table.

      It's pretty much the most cliché thing you can do, but you gotta have sex on a pool table at least once to then never do it again.

      17. Have sex on a boat.

      Whether it's a cruise, a yacht, a sailboat, or a canoe, hook up on a boat to experience the ~motion of the ocean.~ Just be careful if you're prone to seasickness.

      18. Go to a virtual sex party.

      Virtual sex parties are a great way to dip your toes into the idea of swinging and/or getting it on in public, and the best part is you don't even have to leave your couch or put on pants to attend.


      19. Masturbate using only Netflix shows.

      If porn isn't your thing or you're too lazy to go searching for what you like, challenge yourself to get off using only Netflix shows. You'd be surprised what a few select scenes of The Vampire Diaries can do for your arousal.

      20. Reenact your favorite TV sex scene.

      After watching some steamy scenes, try to recreate one. If you need some inspo, try some sex moves from Sex/Life or those steamy Bridgerton moments for some TV-worthy sexy times.

      21. Incorporate food in the bedroom.

      Whipped cream, chocolate sauce, strawberries à la Serena van der Woodsen—there are a whole lotta foods you can incorporate during sex that'll not only turn things up but also ward off any hangry feels that might negatively impact the horny ones.

      22. Find your favorite aphrodisiacs.

      It turns out, there are more aphrodisiacs out there than just oysters. Have a feast to discover what foods get you going.

      23. Have sex on the washing machine.

      It's an on-screen classic for good reason. Whether you go at it with a partner or solo, you gotta find out firsthand why washing machine sex is so majorly hyped. Also, you get to multitask doing your laundry and getting off, which sounds like a pretty successful afternoon if you ask me.

      24. Experiment with BDSM.

      Try bondage, suggests Gabi Levy, a sexpert who also runs the erotic story platform Shag Story. There’s nothing like being tied up, she adds. Obvi, talk it over with your partner first, but if you’re both on board, go forth and bond (sorry).

      25. See if CBD products amp up your sex life.

        They’re everywhere now, so it’s worth a try. Levy says this can help you relax while you get it on, and be useful for getting out of your own head if that tends to be an issue for you during sex.

        26. Play strip-poker.

          This way, everyone wins, Levy says. There’s truly no such thing as losing with strip poker. If you don’t know how to play, don’t worry—sub out poker for any other game. It’s just the “strip” part that makes it exciting anyway, ya feel?

          27. Try to have a nipple-only orgasm.

          They exist, says Levy—and here are some tips on how to have a nipple-induced orgasm. We gotchu.

          28. Experiment with temperature play.

            If you’ve got metal and glass toys, you can run them under cold water for added sensation. If you don’t, you can always play with ice, as Levy suggests. Run an ice cube over your partner’s erogenous zones and then have them do the same to you. You can blow on the skin too for extra oomph.

            29. Get into wax play.

              Get some special wax-play specific candles (yes, the distinction is important!), and start dripping the warm wax on your partner and vice-versa. It might be a little hot (it's not supposed to burn you, thoughh but that’s part of the fun, explains Levy.

              30. Try to ejaculate on your partner’s face.

                If you’re someone who experiences vaginal ejaculation, try this on for a new power dynamic. And if you just can’t bring yourself to ejaculate (not everyone does or can), at least getting to orgasm is still a win, right?

                31. Allow your partner to ejaculate on your face.

                  I mean, if you're into it...

                  32. Try to go a week without sex, but do tease each other constantly the whole time.

                  Resist having sex with your partner for a week, all the while the both of you tease and try to turn each other on. The resulting pleasure from a week-long foreplay session will be sure to result in a v memorable celebration at the end.

                  33. Lick every part of their body.

                  From head! to! toe! Take your time, tease them, and don’t stop when you get to their junk—like we said, head to toe is the assignment here.

                  34. Try edging.

                  This is something anyone of any gender can do to make their orgasms more explosive than ever, says Sarrah Rose, a sex educator at Tantric Activation.

                  35. Try to teach yourself how to pompoir.

                  Pompoir = squeezing your vaginal muscles during sex for added stimulation. There are lots of ways to do this—Rose recommends using a jade egg to strengthen these muscles—but you can also do this without any fancy toys. Just squeeze!

                  36. Get a set of nipple clamps.

                  They might sound like A Lot, but the great thing about nip clamps is you can adjust the tightness so they’re like a light tug, as opposed to clamping. The light intensity of a clamp can increase pleasure sensation, Rose explains.

                  37. Try orgasm denial.

                  Sounds counterintuitive, I know, but orgasm denial can actually be the hottest thing you introduce to your sex life. If you mastered the art of teasing your partner for a week without giving in, try letting yourselves be brought right to the brink of orgasm but not orgasming—for a week.

                  38. Try a tingling arousal gel on your clit.

                  “Liquid vibrator” sounds kinda too good to be true, but according to one of our writers, it delivers. After a few minutes, you’ll be beyond aroused and it might result in some v tingly partner play.

                  39. Order a sex toy you’ve never tried.

                  Yes, you can go to your local sex shop and pick up a new toy. But if you're nervous or self-conscious about it, order online! Plus, you can read up and comparison shop so you know you're getting exactly what you want.

                  Comparison shopping aside, sex toy shopping can still be a fun and spontaneous thing to do with your partner. And who knows, you might get turned on to a totally new kind of toy.

                  40. Buy a sex game.

                  This is different than strip poker like above! See, by buying a game and waiting for it to be delivered, there’s a whole new layer of anticipation you can bring to the table. It’s like Christmas Eve, but for sex. And while strip poker works by making stripping something you can bet, a legit sex game straight-up tells you what to do, which brings a new level of excitement.

                  41. Write your own erotic fanfic of you and your partner.

                  They say to write what you know, and what better way to do that than by incorporating what you know about you and your partner’s current sex life and injecting a healthy amount of fantasy into the mix? You can read it aloud or have them read it to themselves so you can watch their every reaction. Don’t worry about seeming silly, odds are they’ll be flattered and curious. P.S., if it becomes the next great Fifty Shades, I want a cut. Nothing absurd, but something reasonable like 10%.

                  42. Try a sex toy by yourself and report back to your partner about it.

                  Tell them exactly what you liked about it so they can try to recreate that for you going forward. Or use it in front of them if they're more of a ~visual~ learner. And if you really really liked it, use it while having sex with your partner. There's no shame in getting some solid use out of your sex toy splurge.

                  43. Have your partner try a sex toy by themselves, then report back to you.

                  Bonus: Have them try it out the second time in front of you. If you need some inspiration, look into personal massagers, anal plugs, vibrating dildos, or even cock rings. Trust us, the options out there are a-plenty.

                  44. Use sex toys together.

                  After you find some new sex toys you like on your own, try using them together! With a lil creativity and a whole lotta lube, you'd be surprised what a few charged toys can accomplish. Or invest in a couple's sex toy that does the job for both of you.

                  45. Try vibrating panties with your partner in public.

                  You know the idea of vibrating undies sounds sexy as hell. A few fun places to discretely wear them: at a friend's party, at a restaurant, or while at a bar. A not-so-great place to wear vibrating panties: your in-laws' house.

                  46. Have a boudoir shoot for yourself.

                  Yes, you deserve to feel yourself whether you keep the photos for yourself or share them with the world. (100% here for some spicy IGs.) If you have the chance, opt for professional hair, makeup, and lighting, and don't forget the champagne to make it A Whole Damn Day.

                  47. Role-play with your partner.

                  Break out of the norm and get it on with someone new while still getting it on with your person. Role-play is a great way to do things differently, and you might be surprised how much of a difference a wig and accent can make. Sexy doctors on break, TV show characters, or attractive strangers—the options are kinda endless.

                  48. Have a threesome.

                  You know we had to put it on the list, and honestly, it's a classic for a reason. Three mouths, six hands, and 30 fingers will change your freaking life. It's up to you whether you’re the unicorn, you and your partner look for one, or you and your bestie look for a third, as long as you simply go forth and enjoy the extra attention.

                  49. Have your partner try being dominant to you.

                  Fifty Shades of whoever you're dating, amiright? Some hair pulling and spanking can be tres sexy, but just make sure you discuss boundaries and pick a safe word before taking on a submissive role.

                  50. Try being dominant over your partner.

                  ...Or maybe being the domme is what you’re good at. Grab a leather jumpsuit, your favorite spanking weapon (tip: kitchen utensils make great sex toys), and some BDSM accessories to see if being called "mistress" is your new M.O.

                  51. Have super slow, tantric sex.

                  Think of tantric sex as like, sex meets meditation. The experience creates the ultimate, deep connection resulting in mind-blowing, extra-sensual sex. Plus, it reduces stress, helps you sleep, and results in veryyy intense orgasms.

                  52. Have a quickie.

                  Go at it before a Zoom meeting or a dinner reservation so you have a real-time restraint that makes you race to the finish. As good as slow sex is, sometimes a quickie can be even hotter.

                  53. Try a finger up the butt.

                  Before jumping into butt play, easing into anal with a finger is an easy way to test the waters. It can be your fing or your partner’s, but gently insert it and give the anus a lil massage to see what all the fuss is about.

                  54. Try a toy up the butt.

                  If the finger thing from number 49 did something for you, take the next step by trying an anal toy. This is called anal training and can help you accomplish your anal sex dreams if that's down the road for ya. Don't worry, there are tons of toy options out there, and the entire process is way less intimidating than it sounds.

                  55. Try rimming.

                  Swap the finger or toy for a tongue with a rim job. Rimming (also called analingus) is mouth-to-anus oral sex and it’s *also* less intimidating than it sounds. Both giving and receiving are totally different—in a good way!—than you probably think, so be sure to swap roles to really learn what rimming is all about.

                  56. Try penetrative anal sex.

                  You've been working up to this, and anal sex is definitely not something you want to sleep on. It can be extremely pleasurable for people with both penises and vaginas (and yup! you can orgasm from anal), so give it a try...just make sure you have lots of lube on hand read some anal tips first.

                  57. Peg your partner.

                  If you don't have a penis, try donning a dildo or strap-on for a whole other type of play. Not only is wearing a harness hot but being on the giving side can actually be super erotic as well.

                  58. Have silent sex.

                  Try to avoid uttering a noise from foreplay to finish. If you're having trouble, this is the perfect time to get a ball-gag involved (as long as everyone consents, ofc). Include a few silent sex toys to add another twist to the sexuation.

                  59. Have super loud, moan-heavy sex.

                  Why hide? Lean into the sex noises and make your neighbors consider filing a noise-compliant. The extra vocal energy might actually give you a stronger orgasm, but if not, you'll have a blast seeing who can make a heartier howl.

                  60. Try dirty talk.

                  It's like sexting, but IRL. Dunno where to start? Check out these sexy conversation starters (or enders, if you get me). When in doubt, simply describe what's going on, what you like, and what you want your partner to do to you. This is your chance to be as bossy as you want! Take it!

                  61. Sext what you’re going to do to your partner while they’re at work.

                  After getting consent, ofc. You don't want to send something sexy, only for their boss to see. But if you get the go-ahead, pull some inspo from these romance-novelist-approved sexting tips to really make your S.O. blush.

                  62. Ask your partner for nudes.

                  Feel free to give them some direction if they're just like, "What do I send you?" Sometimes we all need some coaching to snap that fire pic. Oh, and if they're down, please respect their privacy and don’t share (even if it’s a recycled nude photo).

                  63. Send your partner nudes.

                  With their consent, though! A random nude when they're like, chilling with their friends or in a meeting can lead to a v awkward situation. Also general nude advice: Hide your face/any identifiable background, and make sure to only send nudes to someone you trust!

                  64. Watch female-friendly, ethical porn with your partner.

                  Take some time to explore and figure out what porn you like first. The good news is there's tons of ethical, feminist porn out there that's a) super hot and b) won't make you feel grimy because you know everyone involved is being paid fairly and treated respectfully. Once you find something you like, take turns playing show and tell...

                  65. Take turns reading each other erotica.

                  There's plenty of erotica out there, no matter your preference. Whether you're into erotic lesbian stories, straight stories, ethical non-monogamy stories, or even fantasy, the world is your sexy oyster!

                  66. Make a sex music playlist.

                  OK, it's basically a certified fact: Music makes sex better. Chances are you already know a song or two that gets you going. (It's Marvin Gaye for me, fam.) Do some song exploring, add everything to a playlist, and see how intense things get as you grind to the beat.

                  67. Have sex in another state.

                  There are probably tons of places within driving distance you can go to, no reservation required. Make it a spontaneous weekend thing because yes, you deserve it. Besides, there's truly nothing better than heading to a romantic B&B for the weekend, only to stay in the room the whole time!

                  68. Have sex in another country.

                  Get exotic and get your passport stamped while you're checking off your bucket list items. Whether this means you get it on with a local while single or your travel buddy while ~in a relationship~ is your call, but just remember: Other! Countries! Have! Sexy! Accents!

                  69. Have sex on another continent.

                  Do international orgasms hit the same? There's only one way to find out, and it 100% starts with overpacking and a trip to Paris. And *if* the sex doesn't fully blow your mind, at least you know the wine and cheese will.

                  70. Have sex in a car.

                  This is a pretty common fantasy for a reason: Car sex is about as hot as it gets. Don't think it's just for horny teens—car sex absolutely still slaps. Just make sure to park in a secluded spot and engage the emergency brake, pls.

                  71. Use lube.

                  Lube! It makes every single type of sex better! We're talking wetter, slipperier, friction (in like, a v good way) that will make you immediately forget the days of using spit or *gasp* using nothing. Try it now (if you haven’t, ofc) and thank me later.

                  72. Then try using some fancy lube.

                  By fancy, we mean non-drugstore variety and something that you put some research into picking. There are tons of different types of lube out there depending on what you want, what type of sex you're having, and how much you're willing to spend, so play around with a few different varieties to see what feels the best.

                  73. Have sex that’s focused just on oral.

                  Too often, penetrative sex is seen as the definition of sex, but newsflash: It's not the only type of sex. Some people love it, some people hate it, and sometimes (or all the time?) oral sex is just better.

                  74. Go to a sex party.

                  You don’t have to do anything, promise! But simply *attending* a sex party is a must. Even if you don't join in, you'll definitely find some inspo. Yes the positions people do and the outfits they wear are worth the cover charge, but it's the erotic atmosphere itself that'll potentially make a regular out of you.

                  75. Take a sex workshop class together.

                  You don't even have to go anywhere! There are tons of sex classes online now, which means you can improve your skills without fighting traffic or leaving your house. Besides, what’s the worst that can happen? You both get better at sex?

                  76. Take a fetish quiz together.

                  Would you ever want to be tied up? Have a threesome? Receive a spanking? Fetish quizzes can help you and your partner figure out things you're into that you might not have even known. You can do it online or try an app version, but whichever route you go, an intimacy quiz will shine a whole lotta light on your ~innermost desires. ~

                  77. Have sex in a (private) pool.

                  Whether it's an inflatable pool in your backyard or a private infinity pool at a sexy tropical resort, pool sex will both cool you off and keep things hot. Just remember: Water washes away the vagina's natural lubricant, so grab some (non-water based!) lube before diving down below.

                  78. Have sex in the shower.

                  Yes, shower sex sometimes gets a bad rap because you're in a tight space and it's hard to find the perfect angle. But you actually *can* have good shower sex with a bit of practice. Just make sure you invest in a non-slip mat first so you don't fall, puh-leeze!

                  79. Have sex in the bathtub.

                  More stability = more experimentation. Truthfully, bathtub sex is fun, relaxing, and it counts as multitasking since you're orgasming and getting clean. Besides, few types of sex are more romantic than in a sudsy tub with candles all around.

                  80. Have sex while you’re blindfolded.

                  Sensory deprivation can be seriously sexy. If you don't have an actual blindfold lying around, you can always buy one, or you could just grab a tie, sleep mask, or a towel to cover your eyes. Sex toy creativity—we love to (not) see it! Get it? Like a blindfold?

                  81. Have sex while your partner is blindfolded.

                  Obvi your partner should get in on the fun too. Secure a blindfold around their eyes (if they're cool with it, ofc), and hop on top. Riding someone without worrying about their view of your chins or the fact that you're panting up a storm is a special kind of sexy.

                  82. Try a remote-controlled long-distance sex toy.

                  Who says long-distance sex has to be boring? There are tons of vibes and sex toys out there that can be controlled via app. This means your S.O. (or new Tinder match) can make you come from far away, while you never have to leave the couch. Technology!!!

                  83. Have phone sex.

                  There’s no need to feel awk, promise! Just talk about what you're doing to yourself, ask what they're doing to themselves, and say what you'd like to do if you were together.

                  84. Have sex somewhere other than a bed.

                  Your kitchen table. Your washing machine. The floor of your bathroom (maybe after you cleaned it). Ditch the bed and get wild with your location.

                  85. Try a flavored lube.

                  While you won't want to use a flavored lube for penetrative sex (the sugars could upset the pH balance of your vagina or cause issues like yeast infections), using flavored lube for oral sex if your partner has a penis is something everyone needs to try. I mean come on, a chocolate-flavored penis? Yuuuum.

                  86. Try to orgasm at the same time as your partner.

                  This can make things seriously intense. While it might be tricky to nail the timing, it's not only possible, but a pretty neat way to bond with your partner. If you're not sure how to make it happen, right this way for some tips to achieving a simultaneous orgasm...

                  87. Have your partner try to give you multiple orgasms.

                  Nothing like a challenge to up the ante. You can go the penetration route here, but the receiving end of oral might be easier. Have them do some jaw stretches and sit back from climax after climax.

                  88. Try to give your partner multiple orgasms.

                  Yes, you can and should return the favor. It might take some practice to make it happen, but half the fun is in the failed attempts. Just be respectful if your partner needs some recharge time or wants to bow out—it's about the experience, not the actual climaxes.

                  89. Try 69-ing with your partner.

                  In theory, two people simultaneously giving and receiving oral sex is simple and sensual. In reality, it's not so straightforwardly enjoyed. Between the multi-tasking and awkward positioning, some people love to 69 and some people hate it. The only way you're gonna find out which team you're on is to give it a try.

                  90. Try to give yourself multiple orgasms.

                  Learn how to play yourself like a damn fiddle. With a bit of practice and a lot of charge in your favorite vibration, you'll be having marathon masturbation sessions in no time.

                  91. Have sex standing up.

                  Nope, you don’t necessarily need insane leg power or superhero coordination to pull off having sex standing up. Prop up your leg or have your partner hold it, and make sure you have something to hold onto in case the thrusting and grinding get you off balance.

                  92. Have sex on a couch.

                  You’re probs already sitting on one anyway. And besides, sex on the couch will def change up the vibe of your living room. Throw on a sexy TV show or steamy movie to set the mood and go at it right there on the cushions.

                  93. Have sex on a chair.

                  It's like a couch, but harder! And less space! And it takes more creativity to really get going! But once you start moving, you'll see that even your IKEA dining room chair can be used for sex. A chair with a back works best, but if a stool's all you got, we dare you to make it work.

                  94. Have sex on a sex swing.

                  This swinging is a tad different than the type you did in elementary school, but way more fun. The concept is still the same though—you hold on, rock back, and enjoy the ride.

                  95. Have sex on the floor.

                  It doesn't really matter which floor as long as it's clean, private, and you won't accidentally get stepped or walked in on. But ideally, you go at it on a bearskin rug in front of a roaring fire, but hey, it's up to you.

                  96. Make sex last all day.

                  Tantra sex, but make it last way longer. Whether that means you each have multiple orgasms or you practice edging and keep *almost* getting to climax doesn't matter, as long as you keep the sexy vibes going from dawn to dusk.

                  97. Recreate your favorite movie sex scene.

                  The Notebook. Titanic. Carol. There are tonssss of hot movie sex scenes out there to reenact. And if you don't have a boat or a rainy forecast, get creative! Half the fun is figuring out how to make a cinema-worthy sex scene work at home.

                  98. Have emotional sex.

                  OK, so crying during sex—also called a crygasm—is actually super normal. Hopefully, you're crying because the sex is so good/you feel so connected/you're so happy. The mix of clitoral stimulation and oxytocin rush can result in tears that your partner will then oh-so-tenderly brush away. Awww!

                  99. Have breakup/goodbye sex.

                  Even though it might not be like, the healthiest thing emotionally, breakup sex is basically a rite of passage. The angst of the situation elevates the senses, and when it's over, it kinda feels like you're in the uber-dramatic breakup portion of a movie (which is much better than real life, obvi).

                  100. Have make-up sex.

                  There are a lot of ways to productively move on after an argument. But the best—and most fun—way to bookend a fight is with some steamy, "I'm so sorry" sex.

                  101. Go down on your partner while they’re on an important phone call.

                  Career sabotage, but make it sexy. Obvs, you're gonna need to make sure your partner is into the idea before they start groaning into the phone with their boss on the other end. If they do give you the go-ahead, do your worst and see how well they can keep it together.

                  102. Have sex in your partner’s childhood home.

                  Normally visits to the in-laws' house aren't really what we'd call a sexy time, but it can be if you remember to lock the doors and ignore the ancient posters of Kate Upton hanging in their room. If you can stay awake after Thanksgiving turkey for a hookup, the small talk at dinner will have been worth it.

                  103. Have sex in your childhood home.

                  The next time your mom guilts you into a visit, bring your boo along for a bit of bedroom lovin'. If your parents are in the "you can't sleep in the same room until married" camp, sneaking around in the middle of the night will make the whole thing even more thrilling.

                  104. Try a sex challenge for the weekend.

                  There are tons of sex challenges out there depending on what you're looking for. To get started, try having sex as many times as you can during the weekend or try a new position each day for a week.

                  105. Have your partner eat sushi off your naked body.

                  Pull a Samantha Jones and just go for it. Some artfully placed sashimi can really make a surprise dinner at home a night to remember. Just make sure the wasabi stays faaaar away from your face and orifices or the evening might end at the ER.

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                  Rachel Varina

                  Rachel Varina is a full-time freelance writer covering everything from the best vibrators (the Lelo Sona) to the best TV shows (The Vampire Diaries). She has over 10 years of editorial experience with bylines at Women's Health, Elite Daily, Betches, and more. She lives in Tampa, Florida, but did not feed her husband to tigers. When she's not testing out new sex toys (100+ and counting so far!), she's likely chilling with her dogs or eating buffalo chicken dip. Ideally at the same time. Follow her on Instagram and Twitter