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5 Best Morning Sex Positions to Really Start Your Day Off Right

Make the most of those first few, deliciously sleepy moments of the day.

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Hitting the snooze button is its own delicious pleasure, but have you considered starting your day off with a (literal) bang? “Morning sex is one of the most underrated forms of sexual intimacy,” says Nikki Coleman, PhD, a sex-positive therapist. Morning sex just hits different—it’s lazy, sweetly sexy, and incredibly intimate. But don't just take our word for it. These morning sex positions will wake you up to what's so great about morning sex.

For one, a.m. sex has the distinct advantage of being easy to schedule. You’re both right there, in bed and conveniently located. “In the hectic pace of life and all of our ever-increasing responsibilities, most adults are worn out at the end of the day and quality sexual intimacy gets forestalled. Sex in the morning is a wonderful solution to this,” says Coleman.

And in the morning sex vs. night sex debate, morning play has biological advantages over sex later in the day. “Hormonally, we are at an optimal time for experiencing arousal, and increased arousal is a necessary component for good sex,” says Coleman. (If your partner has a penis, you two also have the opportunity to harness the power of morning wood.)

Plus, your partner looks so cute when they’re all sleep-eyed and bed-headed. “Emotionally and mentally, we more often wake up with a greater sense of openness and vulnerability, which helps us feel more connected and close to our partner,” says Coleman. “All of this together allows a perfect set of circumstances for slow, intimate, pleasurable, and potentially, orgasmic sex.”

If you haven’t already gotten into morning sex, it’s probably for one of two reasons.

One: It’s the morning—you might feel like you could be sleeping or getting other things done. “Mornings can feel pressured because work or capitalism are calling,” says Coleman. “But if you wake up just 20 minutes earlier, you have plenty of time to get the day started with a delicious orgasm before the morning rush!” Besides, there’s always the weekend. What’s better than a lazy Sunday morning breakfast? A lazy Sunday morning sexfest, ofc.

Two: It’s normal to feel a little out of sorts when you wake up. “I know that folks can associate mornings with crusty or puffy eyes and morning breath. And yes those can be turn-offs,” says Coleman. But if that feels like a deal breaker, try positions that aren’t face-to-face to avoid a direct blast of morning breath. You can also just get out of bed, brush your teeth, then hop back under the covers—still counts!

Rise and shine and try some of these five morning sex positions to start your day off right.

1

The Morning Scroll

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As you can probably tell by the name of this position, it involves getting handsy. Coleman recommends using your fingers in a “much better way” than scrolling on your phone, and instead, give your partner delightful digital sex. Better yet, indulge in some mutual masturbation. “Don’t be afraid to lean over to the bedside table to get the lube. Slippery and slow is the motto here,” says Coleman. Try a warming lube for bonus coziness.

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2

The Sunrise Snuggle

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One of the easiest ways to get things going in the morning is to roll towards each other into the spoon position, if you’re not in it already. “It allows for penetration from behind while also allowing for stimulation of the genitals from the outside with either partner's free hand,” says Coleman. The combo of internal and external stimulation can feel incredible. If the little spoon wants even more external stimulation, have a favorite vibrator at the ready.

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3

The Undercover Lover

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Oral sex in the morning is fun, languid, and intimate, says Coleman. “Go slow and savor your partner,” she says. “Don’t rush.” Take turns going down on each other, and remember: It’s not a race. Feel free to transition into missionary or another comfy position if you want to heat things up. And if you want minty freshness with your morning oral (aka: a blast of coolness and tingly sensation), try a mint-tinged edible lube.

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4

The Morning Tease

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Take a shower together and take turns soaping each other up. Use toys or hands to get each other close to orgasm—but not quite there—then tap out and go your separate ways. No, seriously—go about your normal days and agree to reunite at the end of the night. You’ll both carry a sexual buzz with you throughout the day as you anticipate hooking up later. (If you get way too turned on and can’t stop—totally okay! You can both finish and get your morning shower in—multi-tasking!)

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The Rise-and-Grind

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The sweetest way to start your day is to lie on your sides and face each other, wrapping your arms and legs around each other and pulling yourselves close. You can use lubey hands to stroke each other or slide even closer for penetrative sex. It’s lazy, intimate, plus you get to wake up in each other’s arms.

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