01/13How each zodiac sign controls relationships

This column has been written by astrologer and palmist, Sunita Chabra


Relationships are very complicated especially between a man and a woman. Why? Because both partners invest most of their needs (physical, financial, emotional and in simple words ALL) within their romantic relationship. It is rare that relationship among couples doesn't run into a few bumps, however, the real problem arises when instead of resolving the conflicts, you blame or tell hurtful things to each other, which can at times turn too ugly and maybe become impossible to resolve.


In my personal experience as an astrologer, most relationship problems stem mainly from—ego and insecurity. Complicated relationships are challenging, but there are ways to navigate through the ups and downs to find relationship success. Astrology is one such tool. The strengths of your Sun sign can help you find peace within and also with your partner. If, you seriously want your relationship to work, then knowing how to use the positive energy of your Sun sign will give you the possibility of quickly moving through conflict to a renewed state of closeness with your partner. So, astrology helps you understand how to rise above patterned behaviour and connect with each other. Let’s now understand the intricate aspects of relationships and the couples of each zodiac sign.

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02/13Aries

Aries

Aries is ruled by the planet of action, Mars. Aries have a great magnetic personality. Aries have a bundle of energy that attract others towards them. This sign is also great for overcoming challenges in life, but it can be a tad brutal when used on those who may have sensitive feelings. They act first and think later. When arguments occur, they will go all to win and prove themselves right (even knowing they are wrong!). Aries, sometimes it's better to lose the argument rather than lose the trust and love of your partner. They should be careful not to leave hurt the feelings of their partner. There is not a trace of cunning vile in them, no matter how harsh or straightforward they might be.

Aries is a fire sign and fire signs go best with air signs, namely, Gemini, Libra and Aquarius.

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03/13Taurus

Taurus

Taurus is ruled by the planet of love and comforts, Venus. However, as per astrology, it is a Bull sign. Taurus is the most dependable and reliable of all zodiac signs. They look for stability and commitment in their relationship. Taurus being a fixed sign is not open to changes, once their mind is set they wouldn’t budge an inch. They will seldom display temper, but when The Bull gets angry, it can destroy or wreck everything in his path. Taurus will work hard to provide his loved ones financial stability and comforts in life.

Taurus is an earth sign, and therefore most compatible with other earth signs, Virgo and Capricorn.

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04/13Gemini

Gemini

Gemini is a dual sign and is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication. Gemini is the sign of the twins and has two distinct sides to their personalities. They are superb with words, can charm anyone with their demeanour and also have brilliant humour. They lack patience and in their restlessness, they sometimes throw away most precious loved ones for some distant dream in their heads and may live to regret their hastiness. Gemini can suffer more from emotional problems than the rest of the zodiac signs.

Gemini is most compatible with Aries, Leo, Libra and Aquarius.

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05/13Cancer

Cancer

Cancer Sun sign is ruled by Moon, the planet of mind. As is the waxing and waning of the Moon, so are the mood swings of Cancer. You may come across a Cancer person, laughing its contagious laugh, with giggles and gurgles, and later in the day withdrawn deep into its shell. To keep up with the mood swings of a Cancerian can prove to be quite challenging for some. However, it is hard to resist when they look at you with those beautiful eyes of their and surround you with love and care. However, watch your words for they never ever will forget what you said or did to them even many years later.

Cancer is most compatible with Taurus, Scorpio and Virgo.

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06/13Leo

Leo

Leo sign is ruled by Sun, the soul of the zodiac. Leo is a fiery sign and full of energy. You may get attracted to the energy of a Leo and get wounded by their pride. They may make you feel like the most wonderful and special person in their lives. The fiery pride and ego of Leo can hurt and shatter the sensitive souls. You will seldom find a single or unattached Leo. Leo, the Lion, will always care for you, even if they don’t show. If you open your heart to them, they will open up to you and reflect that love back. Never ever argue with them, they will always have the last say, even when they know they are not right.

Leo is most compatible with Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius.

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07/13Virgo

Virgo

Virgo is an earthy sign and the most practical and methodical sign of the zodiac. Although Virgo, like Gemini, is also ruled by planet Mercury, they are not exactly garrulous. They are gentle and quiet but they quietly observe and notice the smallest details before they go in for war with you. They won’t go into any conflict without fully weighing the pros and cons and gathering all information. Most people don’t like to be examined and analysed to correct flaws or mistakes but Virgos can seldom stop them from correcting the mistakes of others. This may often bring conflicts in relationships.

Virgo is most compatible with Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio and Capricorn.

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08/13Libra

Libra

Libra, the sign of scales, is ruled by planet Venus. Librans hate conflicts, so they often prefer to find a compromise rather than stand their ground and deal with the discomfort. They can be good-natured but can also be sulky at the same time. They can be happy one moment and sad the next moment. They are not moody; it’s just that they are unsure and indecisive. The golden scales of the balance go up and down. The attractive charming dimple smile of a Libra shouldn’t fool you, for imagining them as a picture of mental peace.

Libra is most compatible with Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius.

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09/13Scorpio

Scorpio

Scorpio is the sign ruled by planet Mars, as per Indian astrology and as per western astrology, Pluto. Scorpios have the most attractive and magnetic eyes and you may find it difficult to break the spell if you happen to look deep into their eyes. Secretive and possessive, Scorpios prefer to handle conflicts on their own and will not let others know the intensity and inner turmoil. They tend to be totally calm on the surface but are actually in desperate need of help and support. The intensity of their feelings can be scary at times because they are trying to control the situations and their inner powerful sensitivity. Who said, understanding and finding your way in love is easy!!!

Scorpio is most compatible with Cancer, Pisces, and Virgo.

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10/13Sagittarius

Sagittarius

Sagittarius is a fiery sign and is ruled by planet Jupiter, the planet of abundance. The eyes of Sagittarius are most bright and sparkling with twinkles of humour in them. They can say or do things with interior motives but may land them with a foot in their mouth because being diplomatic is not their virtue. They are unafraid to be direct and blunt. Sagittarius is the least aggressive of the rest of the fire signs and would much rather push a problem to the back of their mind than deal with it. They like to keep their life fun and carefree and put them in serious situations, they start getting fidgety and uncomfortable. Once they are angry it is hard to control and this may bring serious problems.

Sagittarius is most compatible with Aries, Leo, Libra and Aquarius.

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11/13Capricorn

Capricorn

Capricorn is a hardworking earthy sign of the zodiac. Capricorn is ruled by planet Saturn and they often face delays in getting what they want in life. Stability, tradition and family are important for them. When faced with a conflict in a relationship, the first thing any Capricorn will do is turn to family. For them, money, duties and stability in life are important. They may seldom appear emotionless when discussing matters of great personal significance, which is far from truth in reality. They like to be in control in any relationship and this may bring problems with it.

Capricorn is most compatible with Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, and Pisces.

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12/13Aquarius

Aquarius

Aquarius is an airy sign ruled by planet Saturn, as per Indian astrology, and Uranus, as per western astrology. Free-spirited and adventurous Aquarians do not like conflict in relations and will run away from conflicting situations. It is probably the most unpredictable sign of the zodiac. They are most confused about their own actions and probably don’t even know how to react to any kind of situation. They are visionary; their ideas are much ahead of their time and people think of them as eccentric. Aquarians love their freedom and are unpredictable which delays their find for the right ‘partner’ in life.

Aquarius is most compatible with Aquarius, Gemini, Libra, and Sagittarius.

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13/13Pisces

Pisces

Pisces is a water sign, ruled by planet Jupiter, as per Indian astrology, and planet Neptune, as per western astrology. They are dreamy but very intelligent and live in their own world. Pisceans are very sensitive and emotional people. They hide their hurts and tears behind the mask of laughter. They aren’t the people who are quick to jump into an argument or conflict. It is difficult to hold a Piscean in a conflicting relationship. Very little excites them but if you toss a stone in calm waters, face the torrent of sarcasm at your own risk! They are the most intuitive and spiritual beings.

The most compatible sunsigns with Pisceans are Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio and Capricorn.

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