The entire Kardashian family seems thrilled about Kourtney Kardashian’s recent engagement to fellow Hot-Topic-enthusiast-I-assume Travis Barker, but sounds like Scott Disick is feeling kinda rejected.

“The Kardashians adore Scott and tell him he’s part of the family no matter what, but he feels very distant and feels like an outcast more than ever,” a source tells Us Weekly. “He avoids family get-togethers that Travis is at, and he has refused to be in the same room with him at times. It’s fair to say the holidays this year are going to be rough and will be a battle over the kids.”

Meanwhile, a source tells People that Scott is “distancing himself” from the Kardashians to “make his peace” with the engagement. “Scott hasn’t really wanted to deal with Travis and Kourtney because he didn’t feel like he’d have to,” the source says. “At first, it seemed like it was just a casual relationship to him, nothing serious. So he pretty much put that on mute. Hasn’t been giving it too much brainpower, thinking that eventually, they’d break up.”

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“But that didn’t happen and now he’s being forced to deal with it, which is uncomfortable,” the source continues. “He knows he has to lean into the discomfort and get past it. He understands that it’s not Kourtney’s job or Travis’s job to make him okay with this. It’s his job, and if he’s going to co-parent with Kourtney, which he has been, he has to process this and make his peace with it.…It’s not about them, it’s not about Kourtney. It’s about him needing some time to process this and deal with it on his own, without them. He’ll come around soon.”

Sounds more than somewhat awkward, so here’s to hoping everyone works out their vibes soon!